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Teen Sex

I’ve seen so many posts tonight saying “I’m 13 and I’ve never done anything more than kissing with a guy. What’s wrong with me?” and ”I’m 15 and I still haven’t had sex. What should I do?”.

What’s wrong with you? There is nothing wrong with you; there is a lot wrong with society. What should you do? Stick to your morals.
Everybody is in such a rush to grow up that they miss out on the innocence of childhood. But we shouldn’t be suprised, I mean look at how we build up teenage pregnancy with Teen Mom and 16 and Pregnant. That shouldn’t be the norm. Preteens shouldn’t feel ugly because they haven’t had sex yet.

Staying sexually pure doesn’t have to be a religious thing. You could stay pure simply to avoid STD’s or an unwanted pregnancy or simply because you want to save yourself for a man you know you love. Because, let’s face it, Highschool relationships have less than 2% chance of making it out of highschool. So what’re you left with after the guy leaves you? A broken heart.

So please, girls. If you aren’t ready to have sex. Don’t. It doesn’t make you any less beautiful..it makes you, in my opinion, more mature and more of a woman than the others. Don’t be the girl everyone has had…be the girl everyone wants. Be the girl he’d want to settle down with, not fool around with.